Tag: daily habits

  • Start Ridiculously Small: The Secret to Lasting Change

    Start Ridiculously Small: The Secret to Lasting Change

    One Push-Up, One Breath, One Sentence—That’s How Change Begins

    Grant hated gyms. The thought of a full workout overwhelmed him.

    So he set a rule: one push-up a day.

    That’s it.

    It sounded laughable, but that was the point—it removed the resistance. Most days, he did more. But even on the tough ones, he always did one. A year later, Grant had built a consistent routine. It didn’t start with intensity. It started with consistency.

    Real change doesn’t begin with giant leaps.

    It begins with small, gentle steps we can actually keep taking.

    In a world that glorifies big transformations, it’s easy to feel like you need to do everything, all at once. But what actually works—what’s proven to work—is starting ridiculously small.


     

    💜 What Are Micro-Habits?

     

    Micro-habits are tiny actions that are so easy, you can’t fail.

    • One sentence instead of a full chapter.

    • One deep breath instead of 20 minutes of meditation.

    • One glass of water instead of a total diet overhaul.

     

    Small actions are powerful because they’re repeatable. And that repeatability builds identity. You stop trying to “do better” and start being someone different—someone who shows up.


     

    🔁 How to Start Today

     

    1. Start Ridiculously Small

    Make it so easy it’s impossible not to begin. One minute. One rep. One note.

    2. Anchor It to Something Familiar

    Link your habit to an existing routine—like brushing your teeth or making coffee. That’s called “habit stacking,” and it works.

    3. Celebrate Immediately

    Smile. Say “well done.” Give yourself a fist pump. Yes, really. Your brain needs to associate small action with satisfaction.

    4. Scale Up Naturally

    Let your habit grow as it becomes part of who you are. No pressure. No pushing. Just natural expansion from consistency.


     

    ✨ You Don’t Need a Grand Plan—You Need a Tiny Start

     

    We think transformation has to feel epic. But real, lasting change comes from choosing one small action, and repeating it.

    That’s the real flex: consistency over intensity.

    So, what’s one ridiculously small thing you could do today to align with the life you want?

    Take it. Do it now.

    Then repeat it tomorrow.


     

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    Inside, you’ll learn how to:

    • Use micro-habits to rebuild your confidence

    • Anchor habits into your real, messy life

    • Reset without shame and grow without force

     

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    Because the shift you’ve been waiting for doesn’t need to be massive.

    It just needs to begin.

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  • Big Change Doesn’t Start Big—It Starts Invisible

    Big Change Doesn’t Start Big—It Starts Invisible

    Have you ever felt like you’re doing all the right things… but nothing seems to be shifting? You’re not alone.

    We often expect transformation to be loud—instant, dramatic, undeniable. But in reality, real change starts in silence.

    My granddaughter didn’t get to be an accomplished ballerina in one lesson.

    Was it that one final lesson that made the difference? Or was it the slow, quiet build of every tiny step for many years, her habit of daily practice?

    This is how true transformation works.

    We live in a world obsessed with macro moments—before-and-after photos, viral stories, million-dollar wins. But behind every headline is a slow boil: micro-decisions, invisible efforts, and ordinary days stacked together with care.

    The spreadsheet you update at 9pm.

    The healthy meal after a rough weekend.

    The page you write when you don’t feel inspired.

    The courage to show up even when fear croaks loudly in the background.

    These aren’t dramatic acts. But they’re the ones that turn up the heat on your self-doubt—until the fear has nowhere left to hide.

    Success doesn’t arrive like a lightning bolt.

    It compounds, like heat under a pot of water.

    And if you keep the flame burning long enough, that water will boil.

    So today, instead of chasing a breakthrough… build one:

    • Do the task.

    • Make the call.

    • Take the walk.

    • Write the words.

     

    It might feel small.

    But it’s not.

    It’s everything.

    You don’t need a spotlight.

    You need a flame.

    Keep showing up—and let the temperature rise.

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    Because big change begins with one small, steady step.

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  • The Truth About Overnight Success

    The Truth About Overnight Success

    The Truth About Overnight Success

     

    Why Overnight Success is a Myth (and What to Trust Instead)

    We’ve all heard the stories—someone goes viral, lands a dream job, or seemingly “makes it” overnight. It sounds exciting… until it makes you feel like you’re behind.

    But here’s the truth: overnight success is a myth.

    Take my son, Drew. In 2010, his short film Miracle Fish was nominated for an Academy Award, and suddenly his name was everywhere. People called it an “overnight success.” What they didn’t see? Nearly 20 years of behind-the-scenes effort—early mornings, rejections, unpaid work, and tireless commitment. He didn’t get lucky. He got ready.

    The reality is that most breakthrough moments are simply the visible result of years of invisible work. And calling it “overnight” dismisses all the slow, sacred preparation that made it possible.

    We confuse early success (achieving something significant at a young age) with overnight success. Even those young achievers—like Zuckerberg or Bieber—spent years building skills before the world took notice.

    Here’s the real cost of believing in the overnight myth:

    • We compare ourselves unfairly.

    • We question our progress.

    • We give up too soon.

     

    But success isn’t a moment—it’s momentum.

    It’s built through daily disciplines, quiet growth, and showing up long before the applause.

    So if you’re feeling discouraged by someone else’s rapid rise, remember this:

    Success favors those who are ready when opportunity arrives.

    And readiness is built—habit by habit—over time.

    Let go of the fantasy of instant success.

    Trust your journey.

    Keep building your foundation, even when no one’s watching.

    Because the moment your opportunity comes, you won’t need to scramble.

    You’ll be ready.

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  • Daily Habits to Cultivate Gratitude

    Daily Habits to Cultivate Gratitude

    Simple Daily Habits to Cultivate Gratitude

    Develop an attitude of gratitude, and you will live a happier and healthier life. Gratitude has been a big part of my life for many years. It has helped me get through many major challenges in my life, including a marriage breakup after 34 years, and a diagnosis of bowel cancer over 5 years ago. Regular gratitude practice has been linked to significant health benefits in the mind and body. Your relationships will improve, and so will your outlook on life. I am living testament of this. Here are a few tips for cultivating gratitude daily for an overall wellness boost.

     

    Volunteer And Help Others

    How does helping others make you grateful? Volunteering your time or services develops an appreciation for what you have. It is a simple way to cultivate gratitude and connect with others who want to help in their community.

     

    Say Thank You Five Times Every Day

    Commit to thank someone five times every day. Do it in person. If this isn’t possible, then pick up your phone and do a FaceTime or audio call. This is far more personal and meaningful than a text message. If text is the only way available, as is currently with my granddaughter who is overseas for eight weeks, then by all means use it. Expressing gratitude in someone’s presence gives you the benefits of socialization. Personal interactions trigger the production of chemicals that make both parties feel safe and happy with the connection.

    Committing to five “thank yous” every day is positively contagious. You will find yourself expressing gratitude more than five times each day in different experiences and aspects of your life.

     

    Give a Genuine Compliment

    Paying a compliment is a form of gratitude. You express your happiness about someone’s clothes, hairstyle, or behavior. People love receiving compliments. The recipient of your grateful recognition might be having a difficult day. Your sincere compliment could change their perspective from negative to positive. I like to make a point of complimenting someone each time I go to the supermarket. It may be a worker on their work, or another shopper on the colour of their top. You can always find something if you just look.

    As with any act of gratitude, paying a genuine compliment makes you feel good, not just the recipient of the thanks. You are happy about what you did, and your self-respect grows. 

     

    Express Gratitude for Yourself

    You can thank yourself for being the unique person you are. Be thankful for your skill or a random act of kindness you performed. Being grateful for some aspect of yourself is a sign of respect. Your self-esteem and self-appreciation grow, and that’s a beautiful thing. This is often the most difficult expression of gratitude to give. Try it in front of a mirror, and repeat it until you feel comfortable thanking yourself.

     

    Start a Daily Gratitude Journal

    Record your thoughts every morning and each night. Begin and end your day with wellness-boosting thoughts of gratitude. Each morning, express gratitude for what you hope to accomplish. That increases the chances that you will have a good day.

    At night, journal about the goodness you can take away from your experience. What people, places, and things were you grateful for that day? Are you thankful for something you did or experienced? Digital gratitude apps ensure you can always record your thoughts about what you are thankful for.

    If you feel this is too much time or effort, then just get a small notebook and every day write down just three things you are grateful for, just three things.

     

    Say “Thank You” to Your Mistakes

    Look at the positive side of your mistakes and failures. If you let them, they can be wonderful teachers. Mistakes tell you what didn’t work, and they are stepping stones to improvement. Be grateful for your mistakes and embrace anything positive you can take away from the experience. This is often the hardest time to feel grateful. Believe me, if you do this, it can change your whole enjoyment of your life. When I was diagnosed with cancer I became grateful for my doctor who ordered the blood tests that detected something was wrong, grateful for my surgeon whose expertise saved my life, grateful for my family and friends who rallied around me during that difficult time. 

     

    Start today with our FREE Mini Gratitude Journal. Click here.

     

     

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